Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Fool me three times…
I have officially put myself back in the game…I paid my subscription dues for match.com. I fully admit it…my “crazy-dar” is broken. It’s not just broken…I’m not sure that it ever worked. My friends put me on an indefinite restriction from the dating world. I secretly lifted the furlough.
I promise, promise, promise I will do things differently this time…I will acknowledge those massive red flags whipping me in the face. And, I won’t allow a Uhaul within my vicinity! Unless of course it’s Anne Hathaway in my driveway…or Jennifer Beals…or Penelope Cruz…
Wish me luck!
Lady Love 
July 31, 2009 at 11:14 pm
Good luck out there…I’ll be watching your back! Even I may consider Ann if she came my way…ha ha.
December 7, 2009 at 8:25 pm
OK. I don’t know you, but God Bless You, girl. Been down that road before? Lookin the same? It’s cuz your map is all wrong!
IMHO, you really ought to spend some time with a shrink fixing that which is inside you that makes you make poor choices for a mate. Just pretending that the fault is the “other” is classic denial. Takes two to tango, baby. And, since most lesbianism is the result of sexual abuse, you really ought to find a shrink that can help you dig into that to the point that you understand how it is forcing you to make the choices you do. Just sayin’. Take it for what it’s worth. You have free-will, but you might not have a free mind, unfettered by your own wackiness that affects your relationships negatively. Good luck!